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Like A Bird On A Wire

I am a firm believer in letting go and allowing the universe to take you where you need to be.  Some people might say this is because I just don’t like to be held responsible for my choices, but I … Continue reading

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Push It, Push It Real Good

Someone sent me a message telling me that my blog as probably way more interesting than I was in real life.  I like how people understand that my blog is some sort of extension of my real life, but not … Continue reading

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Romancing The Pen-Is Mightier

Somewhere, somehow I got signed up for a sexy party guest list.  It’s always from the same group, which highlights various events in the swinging community.  I guess I could spend this time postulating how it came to be that … Continue reading

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Have A Little Help From My Friends

“Oh Sabrina,” her voice quivers through the phone. Whatever she’s going to say next I know will not be good. “Please tell me you will hangout tonight.” I did not want to hangout or go out or do anything. My … Continue reading

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Turn Me On

I lost my license for a year. It turns out, in the state of California, if you refuse to breathalyze and won’t give blood it’s an automatic forfeiture of your right to drive. Dealing with the police is very much … Continue reading

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Show Me The Way To The Next Whiskey Bar

One of the terms of my probation for my DUI is that I have to attend ten AA meetings. Initially, I was really excited to hear people’s story. The drinking journey that landed them in a position where they have … Continue reading

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You Are Now Watching The Throne

So, I am a week late at advertising this, but I did a podcast with Jessica Thompson over at the YesJessica Blog & YesJessica podcast.  I was actually equal parts excited and scared at doing this for lots of reasons.  … Continue reading

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We Forgot All The Names, The Names We Used To Know

I never expected to live this long.  Thirty feels like thirty years longer than I should have lived.  I’m so endlessly impressed that I am still alive I am actually putting effort into the things I do. Because I planned … Continue reading

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And Then I Buckled And Joined Tumblr

For years, at least it seems like years, Kayfabe has been on me about joining Tumblr.  It turns out I joined a long time ago so that I could like posts and follow people but until this week I vehemently … Continue reading

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And Then Something Exceptional Happened

2012 is very difficult.  Not the sort of difficult where you feel like you are being defeated but instead where you open up and realize a great many things you have been trying to ignore for a very long time.  … Continue reading

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